When Your Best People Start to Drift: How to Re-Recruit Before They Quietly Quit

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🔎 What We’ll Learn in Today’s Newsletter

• Why high-performers burn out quietly (and how to spot it before it’s too late)

• The subtle shift from engaged to emotionally checked-out

• How well-meaning leaders accidentally de-prioritise their best people

• How to re-recruit your top talent before they’re halfway out the door

• A conversation script that restores trust, energy, and focus in under 30 minutes

• 🔒 [Premium] The Re-Recruitment Framework I use to reignite top performers before they start quietly quitting

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Hi friends, Let’s talk about something painful:

They’re still showing up.
They’re still delivering.
But the spark is gone.
The curiosity, the stretch, the proactive questions, they’re fading.
You start to notice fewer ideas, less eye contact, more transactional updates.

They haven’t left your team.
But they’ve started to leave you.

The Hidden Burnout of High Performers

The biggest irony in leadership?
The people who need the most care are often the ones you worry about least.

They never complain.
They keep taking on more.
They’ll hit their targets no matter what.

Until one day, they don’t.
Or worse—they do, but they stop caring.

This is the burnout you don’t see. The kind that’s masked by competence.

What It Looks Like (Before It’s Obvious)

You won’t always get a big red flag. Often, you’ll see:

• A gradual drop in energy on calls or in Slack

• Pulling back from optional projects they once jumped at

• Less challenge, more compliance

• A vibe of “quiet reliability” where there used to be push and initiative

• Delay in small things — follow-ups, meeting notes, peer feedback

It’s not disengagement. Not yet.

But it’s a disconnection from purpose, ambition, and often… you.

How We Accidentally Make It Worse

This part’s uncomfortable—because we all do it.

You see them coping, so you give them space.
You don’t want to overwhelm them, so you don’t give them more.
You stop checking in as often because they’re the “low-maintenance” one.

And you start spending all your leadership time with the people who are struggling or shouting the loudest.

Meanwhile, your high performer is wondering:

• “Do they still see me?”

• “What’s next for me here?”

• “Does any of this even matter anymore?”

If those questions go unanswered for too long, they’ll answer them without you.

Re-Recruiting Your Best People

Retention isn’t about perks or counteroffers.
It’s about reconnection.

Here’s the truth:

And you’ll never get a resignation letter that says “I left because I felt invisible.” But that’s exactly why most of them do.

So here’s what I recommend:

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The 30-Minute Re-Recruitment Conversation

Block time. One-on-one. Unrushed. And say this:

Then ask:

• What’s felt most energising for you lately?

• Where do you feel underused or bored?

• What would challenge you in a good way right now?

• If you were mentoring someone else here, what would you tell them about this phase of your career?

Listen. Then act. Not with a big promotion—but with an opportunity, a visible challenge, or a signal of trust.

You’re not just keeping a top performer—you’re re-recruiting them.

Leadership Isn’t Just About Hiring

It’s about keeping people growing. Especially the ones who make your life easier.

If you don’t stretch them, someone else will.
If you don’t invest in them, they’ll invest their energy somewhere else.
If you don’t see them—really see them—they’ll go find someone who does.

Don’t wait until they’re halfway out the door.

Start now.

🔒 This Week’s Premium - The Re-Recruitment Framework

Inside the paywalled section this week, I’ll walk you through the exact framework I use when I sense a top performer is starting to emotionally detach:

• The “5-Signal Audit” I use to spot early drift

• How to structure a check-in that doesn’t feel like a performance review

• A 3-option challenge menu to keep them engaged

• A confidence script to rebuild trust if you’ve accidentally gone quiet

• How to track and protect high-performer energy in your leadership rituals

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