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THIS WEEK: Doing the Hard Things
Think about how it feels when you’re staring at a decision that everyone else dreads. Your stomach tightens. You replay the possible outcomes in your head. You know there’s risk, maybe even backlash, but deep down, you also know that avoiding it will create bigger problems later. That tension? That’s the sign you’re standing at the edge of growth.
Leaders feel it all the time:
The weight of responsibility when a tough call could affect your team’s morale, workload, or results.
The self-doubt whispering, “Maybe someone else can handle this.”
The mental noise of imagining all the ways it could go wrong.
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And yet, the leaders who consistently step into that discomfort are the ones who get results. Doing hard things builds competence and confidence. Every time you face a tough decision and push through, the next one feels a little easier. Over time, you start to trust your own judgment more, and your team starts to trust you more.
Why It Matters
When you tackle the hard things:
You create momentum where others see obstacles.
You model courage, discipline, and accountability for your team.
You prevent small issues from growing into big crises.
You build personal resilience and sharpen your judgment.
Avoiding hard work might feel safer in the moment, but it compounds problems—and anxiety—later. Leadership isn’t about comfort; it’s about making the right choices, even when they’re difficult.
Leader’s Reflection
Take a moment this week to ask yourself:
What’s the one hard thing I’ve been avoiding because it’s uncomfortable?
How much energy am I wasting worrying about it versus tackling it?
Where could leaning in now prevent a bigger problem down the road?
How will stepping up inspire my team and elevate their performance?
Remember: doing hard things is like building a muscle. Every time you embrace discomfort, you grow stronger, more capable, and more confident. Your team notices, and they rise to your standard.
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Build the “hard things” muscle so challenges feel achievable, not intimidating.
Run small, high-impact experiments that accelerate growth and results.
Hold yourself accountable in a way that builds confidence, competence, and credibility.
These aren’t abstract ideas; they’re playbooks, templates, and real-world tactics that turn uncomfortable decisions into leverage for your career, your team, and your results.
Hard things compound into exceptional results. Treat them as a muscle: train it consistently, stretch it deliberately, and watch your confidence and competence grow exponentially.
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