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This Week: The Art of the Upgrade

This week we’re learning that every hire you make should upgrade your team’s capabilities, not just fill a vacant seat. The painful reality leaders struggle with is the pressure to hire fast when they should be hiring better. The urgency to close a gap often leads to compromising on talent, resulting in long-term drag and underperformance. Great leadership is an exercise in ruthless patience and an unyielding commitment to raising the average quality of the team with every single addition.

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I want to start with a picture: A construction site with two piles of bricks.

One pile is uniform, high-quality, and structurally sound. The other is a mix of shapes and materials, some good, some cracked, some completely wrong.

You are building a skyscraper. Which pile do you choose?

And honestly? Most mediocre teams are simply the result of a series of "good enough" hires. We allow the short-term pain of a vacant headcount to override the long-term strategic need for excellence. When you hire someone who is merely adequate, you don't just get an adequate person; you lower the performance ceiling for everyone around them.

People don’t fail when they’re capable. Teams fail when the talent bar is set too low.

And that’s on us as leaders.

Leadership, at its core, is the job of the gatekeeper. You are the protector of the team's quality, standards, and future potential. You must be willing to endure the short-term pain of understaffing to secure the long-term leverage of a truly exceptional teammate.

The Mediocrity Trap

If you’ve ever settled for a hire, the long-term results look like this:

  • Your best people spend their time covering for the weakest links instead of working on high-value projects.

  • You introduce unnecessary processes and checks to mitigate the risk of poor execution.

  • Team meetings are dominated by remediation and basic questions instead of strategic discussion.

  • You hesitate to assign truly complex, high-stakes work because you can't trust everyone with it.

  • The "good enough" hire becomes a permanent anchor, consuming more time and energy than the cost of the initial vacancy.

Nothing is explicitly wrong with the person. Everything is just... slower, heavier, and more fragile.

  • Settling for less kills ambition.

  • Settling for less dilutes culture.

  • Settling for less signals to your top performers that you don't value their time or the quality of their work.

And the irony? Most hiring mistakes aren't because of bad interviewing.

They’re a "Standard Gap."

Not malicious. Not dramatic. Just a failure of nerve to wait for the right person.

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Your Real Job: Protect the Bar

Great leaders don’t walk into the week asking:

“How can I fill this open role in the next 30 days?”

They ask:

“Who is the person that will make everyone else on the team better?”

It’s a completely different lens. Instead of focusing on speed-to-hire, you focus on quality-of-hire.

Instead of managing vacancies, you manage potential. Instead of hiring for the job today, you hire for the job the person can grow into tomorrow.

Here’s what a low bar looks like in real life:

  • The Warm Body Hire: Filling a slot with the first decent candidate because the deadline is looming.

  • The Skills Checklist Trap: Hiring solely based on a resume match of technical skills, ignoring culture fit and cognitive horsepower.

  • The "I Can Train Them" Delusion: Taking on a candidate with a significant gap, believing you have the time and energy to fix their foundation.

  • The Consensus Candidate: Hiring the candidate no one disliked, instead of the one who truly excited the team.

Your team can handle high workload. They struggle with low-quality co-workers.

Raise the bar, and everything changes.

3 Bar-Raising Habits Every Leader Needs

1. The "A-Player Test"

Before extending an offer, ask yourself and your hiring panel two questions:

  1. "Would I hire this person to work for a successful competitor?" (If the answer is no, stop).

  2. "If this person accepted, would my two best current employees be excited to work with them?"

If you don't get a clear, enthusiastic Yes to both, wait.

2. Hire for Trajectory, Not Tenure

Stop prioritising candidates who perfectly match the years of experience in your job description. Instead, focus on Rate of Learning and Curiosity. Ask behavioral questions that reveal how fast they adapted to new technology or challenges.

The person who learned $X$ in six months is often more valuable than the person who has done $Y$ for six years. You are hiring their potential energy.

3. The 48-Hour De-Brief

Mandate that the hiring team discusses the candidate's performance within 48 hours of the final interview. Long gaps allow doubt and discomfort to fade, replacing critical thinking with scheduling convenience. Use a structured scorecard focused on non-negotiable attributes (e.g., Ownership, Judgment, Communication). No "gut feelings" allowed—only objective evidence from the interview.

High-Bar Leadership Compounds

People think successful teams are just lucky in who they find.

In reality, they are simply disciplined in who they let in.

The commitment to the high bar is invisible work; it's the vacancy you leave open for 60 more days. But you feel it in everything:

  • Projects that are tackled with confidence and minimal supervision.

  • Teams that challenge each other to be better, without needing leader intervention.

  • Fewer fires to put out, because people own the full outcome.

  • Leaders who spend their time on strategy, not talent management issues.

An exceptional team isn't an accident. It's engineered by patience and standard-setting.

That is leadership.

Leader’s Reflection

Ask yourself this week:

  • Which current open role am I feeling pressured to fill quickly?

  • What is the single non-negotiable attribute (e.g., judgment, ownership, candor) that I must screen for?

  • What is the cost (in dollars and energy) of making a bad hire versus waiting 90 more days for a great one?

  • Do I have a structured, data-driven process for rejecting "good enough" candidates?

Your people don't need you to hire fast. They need you to hire the person who will make their day-to-day work better.

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Most leaders interview resumes. Great leaders interview potential.

This week’s Premium Toolkit gives you the operating systems to do exactly that:

💡 1. The Bar-Raising Scorecard - A structured template for evaluating candidates against cultural traits (e.g., Candor, Judgment, Ownership) rather than just skills.

🧱 2. The Role-Defining Matrix - A framework that forces you to define what exceptional performance looks like 6 and 12 months after the hire.

⚡ 3. The "Potential vs. Experience" Interview Guide - A list of behavioural questions designed to uncover a candidate’s rate of learning and resilience.

📆 4. The Structured Rejection Email Templates - Professional and kind templates for telling "good enough" candidates No while protecting your company's reputation.

🔥 5. Case Study: How One Leader Hired 5 Key Roles with Zero Regret - A real example of a VP who resisted pressure and transformed their team's velocity by waiting for true A-Players.

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