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• Why emotional intelligence is often missed

• 5 core components

• What empathetic leadership looks like

• Value of setting high standards

• Notion: your digital workspace

• Confidence building series in 254 days

In the realm of leadership, technical skills and strategic acumen are often emphasized as the cornerstones of success.

However, there's another critical dimension that separates good leaders from exceptional ones: emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage both our own emotions and those of others.

Daniel Goleman’s EQ theory comprises five core components.

1. Self-awareness.

Self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence. It involves being in tune with our own emotions, strengths, weaknesses, values, and motivations.

Self-aware leaders have a clear understanding of their emotions and how they impact their thoughts, behaviours, and decision-making processes.

By cultivating self-awareness, leaders can better regulate their emotions, make more informed choices, and build authentic connections with others.

2. Self-Regulation:

Self-regulation is the ability to manage and control one's emotions, impulses, and reactions, even in challenging situations.

Leaders with strong self-regulation skills can remain calm under pressure, think rationally, and respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.

This ability to maintain composure and emotional stability inspires confidence in others and fosters a positive work environment conducive to productivity and collaboration.

3. Empathy:

Empathy is the capacity to understand and share the feelings and perspectives of others.

Empathetic leaders are attentive listeners who seek to understand the emotions and experiences of their team members.

By demonstrating empathy, leaders build trust, strengthen relationships, and create a sense of psychological safety where individuals feel valued and supported. This, in turn, enhances teamwork, communication, and morale within the organization.

4. Social Skills:

Social skills encompass a range of interpersonal abilities, including communication, conflict resolution, negotiation, and collaboration. Leaders with strong social skills excel at building and maintaining relationships, inspiring and motivating others, and navigating complex social dynamics effectively.

These leaders are adept at fostering a culture of openness, respect, and inclusivity, where diverse perspectives are valued and contributions are recognized.

5. Motivation:

Motivation refers to the drive and passion to pursue goals with energy and persistence.

Emotionally intelligent leaders can harness their intrinsic motivation and inspire others to achieve shared objectives.

They set high standards for themselves and their teams, providing purpose, direction, and encouragement along the way. By fostering a culture of motivation and engagement, leaders cultivate a sense of purpose and fulfillment that fuels individual and organizational success.

In today's rapidly evolving business landscape, emotional intelligence is more important than ever for effective leadership.

By developing proficiency in the five key areas, leaders can enhance their ability to connect with others, navigate complex challenges, and drive positive change within their organizations. Ultimately, mastering emotional intelligence empowers leaders to lead with authenticity, empathy, and resilience, creating a culture of trust, collaboration, and success.

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Now that you’ve learnt more about emotional intelligence, let’s focus on developing your skills in these areas.

1) What 2 areas are you struggling with and need some development?

2) What specific actions will you take for each of the 2 areas?

3) When will you do it?

Resources

• App - Notion - a superb digital workspace with loads of great templates to journal, store documents, articles, notes, your goals, and loads more. Strongly recommend.

• App - uDemy - if you don’t wish to invest in a monthly subscription learning service such as LinkedIn Learning, uDemy is a good alternative. I have taken around 3 courses and found the quality and instructors to be great. You can usually find great Leadership and Personal Development courses in the promo reduced to £10-£20. Excellent value for a course to sharpen your profressional skills.

• YouTube - Evan Carmichael Confidence Series - Evan put together a series of daily confidence-building videos from celebrities to motivational speakers delivered via YouTube directly to your inbox everyday. 254 days to Unstoppable Confidence.

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